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Before the Rush Takes Over: Four Pauses for Prayer

Before the rush takes over—before the lists, the noise, the expectations—there is a pause. Not a perfectly quiet one. Not always planned. Just a moment where we stop long enough to notice our own hearts.

Prayer in this pause doesn’t require a posture, a room, or the right words. It requires willingness.

Some people find their pause in a prayer closet—alone, quiet, intentional. Others meet God in less expected places.

Once, while driving on the highway, I suddenly felt burdened to pray—for someone I couldn’t see and for needs I didn’t fully understand. I pulled into a truck stop, parked off to the side of the building, turned off the engine, and closed my eyes. I prayed—not eloquently, just honestly—for faces, for safety, for circumstances known only to God.

That moment mattered because I was available. I sensed a spiritual nudge and chose to respond. I hold myself accountable for those moments.

Pause When You Feel Overwhelmed

When the noise piles up and your mind won’t slow down.

Scripture to rest in:
“Be still, and know that I am God.” — Psalm 46:10

You don’t have to silence everything around you—only the urgency inside you. Take a breath. Read the verse once. Then again. Let “be still” become an invitation, not a command.

Overwhelm loosens its grip when you stop trying to manage everything and simply remember who is God—and who is not.

Pause When Worry Turns Heavy

When money is tight, stress becomes frustration, or fear slips into anger.

Scripture to rest in:
“And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:19

This prayer might happen while looking at a bank statement, standing in a store aisle, or lying awake at night. Name the worry. Don’t minimize it—but don’t let it lead. Trust grows when prayer shifts from “What if?” to “Even now, God is sufficient.”

Pause When Your Efforts Feel Unnoticed

When cooking, planning, hosting, and serving go unacknowledged.

Scripture to rest in:
“Let all that you do be done in love.” — 1 Corinthians 16:14

This prayer often comes mid-task—hands busy, heart tired. Pause long enough to ask: Why am I doing this? Then offer it again, freely.

Peace returns when service is released from the need for recognition.

A Final Pause: Pause when patience is thin and grace feels optional.

Scripture to rest in:
“The Lord is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and rich in love.” — Psalm 145:8

This prayer may come after a sharp word or a deep sigh. Pause—not to rehearse someone else's behavior—but to realign your own heart. 

We don’t ask God to fix others first. We ask to become more like Him.

Meeting God Where You Are

Prayer does not require ideal conditions. It happens in closets and kitchens. In cars and truck stops. In silence and in whispered words.

The pause is simply this: I am here. God is here. That is enough.

And when we pray this way, we stop trying to control what we cannot—and begin tending to the one place we can: our own hearts.

 

 

I’m Lauren—a writer, educator, and novelty quilter with over 30 years of experience in service and sales. I’ve taught high school English, worked as a journalist, and now run Artisan Shop USA, a marketplace supporting handmade artistry and the sharing of faith, family, and country. I’m also a wife, mom, and lifelong lover of storytelling.

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2 comments

Talking to God like you would to a respected friend is beautiful image of relationship.

Lauren

God gave every creature free-will therefore, God has free will. That’s how much he loves us. This is one of those habits you have to form over time, but purposefully. After a while of consistant prayer it’s a meditation for me. When I feel the Spirit , I’m just talking, like to a friend I respect.

Brad Salomon

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